123: Teamwork, Purpose, and Leaving Ego at the Start Line with Robyn Benincasa
Dwayne Kerrigan sits down with world-class endurance athlete, firefighter, nonprofit founder, and keynote speaker Robyn Benincasa to unpack what truly separates great teams from the rest.
Drawing from decades of extreme adventure racing, Robyn shares how elite teams win not by being the most talented, but by being the most committed to each other. She introduces her powerful TEAMWORK framework, revealing why total commitment, empathy, adversity management, mutual respect, and relinquishing ego are the real competitive advantages—whether you’re racing through jungles or leading a modern organization.
Through unforgettable stories—including hallucinations after days without sleep, tying boats together to beat world champions, and redefining leadership mid-race—Robyn shows how purpose, preparation, creativity, and shared ownership create cultures that don’t just survive pressure… they win because of it.
This episode is a masterclass in leadership, resilience, and building teams that operate as one heart, one mind, especially when the stakes are high and the path forward is uncertain.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:
00:00 – Robyn opens with the defining trait of elite teammates: leaving ego at the start line.
01:00 – Dwayne formally introduces Robyn and outlines her extraordinary background.
03:00 – Robyn shares discovering kayaking after hip surgery and focusing on what she could do.
06:30 – Why progress toward a meaningful goal is what makes humans feel alive.
10:30 – Competing to explore personal limits rather than seeking validation or approval.
14:00 – Why great teams care more about each other than themselves.
18:00 – How Robyn accidentally became a speaker after Fast Company’s “Extreme Teamwork”
21:30 – The importance of leaving ego behind and accepting help to win as a team.
25:30 – The “Steve Gurney Missile” story and choosing to race to win instead of not lose.
30:00 – Creativity, calculated risk, and living in your strengths under pressure.
34:30 – Relinquishing ego, rotating leadership, and leading based on strengths—not titles.
39:00 – Hallucinations, extreme fatigue, and supporting teammates through suffering.
42:00 – Kinetic leadership and adapting leadership styles to what the team needs.
45:30 – Purpose, coaching influence, and how early mentors shaped Robyn’s drive.
50:30 – Innovation, self-awareness, and evolving by leaning into strengths.
56:00 – Finding a greater purpose in business.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Winning teams prioritize commitment to each other, not individual performance.
- Progress toward a meaningful goal is what makes humans feel alive.
- Creativity and innovation emerge when teams operate from trust and purpose.
- Leadership should rotate based on strengths, not titles or tenure.
- Accepting help is not a weakness, it’s how teams move faster and farther.
- Great leaders show people how amazing they are, not how amazing the leader is.
NOTABLE QUOTES:
“ I feel weird when I don't have a goal. I get my juju, I get my energy from progress.” - Robyn Benincasa
“ I think humans really feel alive when they're progressing towards a goal.” - Robyn Benincasa
“Winning is that way.” - Robyn Benincasa
”You don't inspire people by showing them how amazing you are, you inspire people by showing them how amazing they are.” - Robyn Benincasa
“ In business, if you're not innovating, you're, you're dying.” - Dwayne Kerrigan
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Project Athena (founded by Robyn Benincasa)
- Fast Company Magazine – Extreme Teamwork feature
- Adventure Racing World Championships
- Guinness World Records (endurance paddling)
- TEAMWORK framework (Total Commitment, Empathy, Adversity Management, Mutual Respect, We-thinking, Ownership, Relinquishment of ego)
- Daniel Goleman – Emotional Intelligence (leadership styles reference)
As a two-time World Champion Adventure racer, San Diego Firefighter, and CNN Hero, Robyn Benincasa knows a thing or two about creating Human Synergy, or as she puts it, “That magic that allows ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary things together.” Through harrowing experiences in places like the jungles of Borneo and the Himalayan peaks, Robyn has studied the good, the bad, and the not-so-pretty of Extreme Teamwork. Her refreshing and unique techniques build and foster impactful, inspired teams that succeed against all odds and turn setbacks into comebacks.
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